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Today, I'd like to write the first article about my session of opinion, it's about bullying, the things that people talk about since years ago. Let me tell you a glance about bullying from my point of view. 

What is bullying?

What is the effect of bullying?

Based on my opinion, it's the effect of bullying

1. People who gets bullied tend to feel that they are nothing - which means that bullying can decrease people's confidence. They will feel that nobody loves them and they will also feel that they are not good enough to be loved. It will lead to physical harmful. They will do cutting and another things in order to make them feel better. There are also many victims that try to kill themselves in order to feel better.

2. People who gets bullied usually will have mental health problems - which means that bullying can causing someone to anorexia (fear of being fat), PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) and social anxiety (fear of being in social life). Believe me, its so so so damn hurtful. Imagine that you feel it by yourself, you will feel bad (i know some people would like to say, "Ah, please don't seek for attention") well, man, it's not that easy. if they have a social anxiety

3. People who gets bullied will consume drugs to make them feel better - which means, every single thing that people tell about them is hurtful. They will think if there are things that can make them feel better out there. At first they may smoke, drink, and consume drugs in order to run from reality, but, they will consume it continuously which is bad for their health.

My Opinion?

Well, bullying is so bad. I was imagined if I got bullied by many people - let's say a whole class or a whole school. I can't stand it right because its not easy even though I only imagine. Beside, I will feel that I am unworthy and I am the worst people in the world. I know maybe that's not true but I am thinking with the point of view as a victim. It will make me feel sad. and I think it should be stopped before it makes the victims feel the worse.

That's all about bullying + my opinion 'bout it.

See ya until my next post!

Vdy

Since it is 2017, I would like to write in english (not all of the post is in english, some will be in indonesian) because of,......... you know, the global era. The more you use english, the more it brings you to a better life. Well, my wishes for 2017 are :

1. I hope that 2017 will bring you all into a better life in every single aspect. (to all my readers, especially) I would like to wish you all with a lot of luck.

2. I would like to post some articles (it can be my opinions, my stories, and any other else) into this blog once in a week in order to make a 'life' in this blog.

3. I hope that every single people out there who are so lazy to move from bed (in Indonesia they call it as mager) I hope that doesn't happen anymore in 2017.

Well, happy reading from my blog!

P.S : The post about "bakat dan talenta" is actually draft from 2016 that I forgot to post.

Happy Reading;)

Vdy

Bakat.

Usaha.

Bakat.

Apa ya yang lebih mendominasi? Usaha, atau bakat? Menurut para pakar, rasa rasanya usaha lebih mendominasi, terbebas dari skill apa yang dipunya. Menurut para pakar juga, bakat hanya mendukung 1(satu) hingga 3(tiga) persen kemampuan kita. Artinya, 97(sembilan puluh tujuh) persennya, usaha membantu kita mendapat kemampuan kita.

Usaha lebih mempengaruhi skill kita. Misalnya, ketika kita sedang minder karena nggak punya bakat, otak kita akan mencari tau, sebenernya, gue tuh bisa apa sih? dan kita akhirnya menemukan hal baru yang pada awalnya hanya dicoba-coba, namun setelah kita mencobanya, ternyata kita tahu bahwa itu, sesuatu yang kalian kerjakan, bisa membuahkan hasil. Selain itu, banyak lagi. Kira-kira, apa aja sih, output dari usaha?

Melahirkan Passion

Indeed, pastilah usaha melahirkan passion! Ya nggak sih? Dari awalnya kita bertanya-tanya, eh lama-lama kita jadi suka dan sadar kalo itu passion kita dan hal yang udah kita cari-cari sejak lama! Sejak lama kita menanti, eh taunya kita punya sesuatu yang spesial yang kita sendiri baru tau! Seru loh, mencari sesuatu yang pada akhirnya menjadi passion kita!

Mengasah Skill

Yaiyalah, dengan adanya usaha, skill kita bakal keasah! Misalnya, kita punya bakat gambar, terus kita nggak pernah ngegambar sama sekali, masa iya tiba-tiba skill kita udah secanggih Van Gogh? atau, kita punya bakat musik dan nggak pernah latihan, tetep aja kan, skill kita nggak bisa langsung sekeren Elvis Presley.


Yak. Sekian.